Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Do people really change?

So I posted something on my twitter the other day stating "People don't change, situations do" and I got mixed reviews about the topic. I believe that once people reach a certain level of maturity and intelligence that it is basically impossible for them to change. I don't think that a person that has been set in their ways for too long can change themselves. And with the changing of situations I believe that any situation can be change. I believe that a person just has to be smart enough to realize whats worth changing and what you just need to walk away from. And with that said I have walked away from a bunch of situations this year and I don't regret any of my decisions.

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I figure since I haven't come up with anything yet that my New Year's resolution will be to get back on my blog. I will definitely do a post rounding up my year, it shall be interesting.

I change like the seasons

So I haven't been on my blog in ages, but as soon as I came back to it I realized that I had to change everything about it. It's actually quite sad though. As soon as I saw the word love on my blog I thought "Oh no that has to go." So much has changed since the last time I posted. My feelings are completely different now towards love, relationships, and men in general. I don't have the same mentality that I did earlier this year. I think I've become pessimistic about it all or maybe just tired of it. My feelings now are that I am too young to worry about it and I should just worry about living my life and doing whats good for me. I just want to make my life worth living[that's my motto now] So I decided to put me and my life first and then love last, if it comes it comes if it doesn't oh well, I'll still be alive.